Learn to Control Cognitive Distortions

The functioning of our minds is complex. How we perceive the world, our interpretations of experiences, and the conclusions we draw significantly affect our behavior and overall job satisfaction. Cognitive distortions, irrational thought patterns that typically reinforce negative thoughts or emotions, can cause undue stress and even lead to burnout. These distortions can be particularly harmful for those in leadership roles, impairing their effectiveness and well-being.

Imagine receiving a vaguely worded email from your superior requesting a meeting. The ambiguity could prompt hours of anxiety, concocting worst-case scenarios, only to realize later that the meeting was innocuous. This is an example of a cognitive distortion, specifically, jumping to conclusions. Leaders often receive training on interpersonal communication but may not be equipped to handle their ‘self-talk’ – the internal narrative they construct to interpret and react to events.

Psychologists identify various cognitive distortions, including ignoring the positives, conflating feelings with reality, maintaining a narrow focus or ‘tunnel vision’, blaming others or oneself for negative occurrences, insisting on ‘should’ statements disregarding reality, adopting all-or-nothing thinking, and overgeneralizing from a single negative event. Each of these distortions can significantly influence how a leader perceives their role and responsibilities, which in turn affects their job satisfaction and susceptibility to burnout.

Research conducted by the Center for Creative Leadership (CCL) surveyed approximately 300 leaders worldwide, shedding light on the relationship between work factors and the prevalence of cognitive distortions. Findings indicated that leaders contending with role ambiguity and conflict were more likely to experience frequent cognitive distortions. Conversely, those with supportive social and organizational environments were less likely to fall into these thinking traps.

As cognitive distortions involve emotional responses, emotion regulation strategies can effectively mitigate their damage. There are three primary methods: cognitive reappraisal, cognitive defusion, and expressive suppression.

Cognitive reappraisal involves consciously reinterpreting an emotion-provoking event, challenging assumptions, and identifying missing information that could counter the negative conclusion. Cognitive defusion requires distancing oneself from distressing thoughts, observing them as an external observer, and understanding that thoughts are not always reflective of reality. Expressive suppression involves concealing behaviors or actions indicative of one’s emotions, presenting a calm exterior despite inner turmoil.

Of these three strategies, cognitive reappraisal and cognitive defusion have been shown to effectively counter the effects of cognitive distortions on burnout. Expressive suppression, while commonly used, does not provide a buffer against the harmful impact of cognitive distortions on stress levels and burnout.

At an individual level, leaders can mitigate the adverse effects of cognitive distortions by monitoring their self-talk, particularly during distressing times at work. Practicing cognitive reappraisal and cognitive defusion can help them manage their emotional responses more effectively.

From an organizational perspective, leadership development programs must emphasize the recognition of cognitive distortions and their impact on job satisfaction and burnout. Training should be geared towards teaching leaders how to employ cognitive reappraisal and defusion to handle their emotional responses.

Moreover, organizations should discourage the use of expressive suppression as an emotion regulation strategy. Promoting a culture where leaders are expected to suppress their emotions can exacerbate the damage caused by cognitive distortions. Instead, fostering an environment where leaders are encouraged to acknowledge and appropriately express their emotions can contribute to a healthier work environment.

Understanding cognitive distortions and their impact on leadership effectiveness is paramount. By incorporating emotion regulation strategies into leadership training, organizations can bolster the mental well-being of their leaders, enhancing job satisfaction, reducing burnout, and ultimately, improving leadership effectiveness.

By Karun Varma

As the India lead for Office Business at DLF, I am leading the leasing domain and expansion plans for DLF’s office assets. Currently with a span of over 40 million sq.ft. and growing, this portfolio represents tenants that list in the Fortune 500 global companies. At DLF, we prioritize tenancy services, underpinned by rigorous measures and processes, affirming our status as an unmatched leader in the industry. My goal is to grow the portfolio and continuously improve our service levels. With over 25 years in the services sector and a significant tenure in property consulting, my journey has been marked by stints at renowned firms like Jones Lang LaSalle and Cushman and Wakefield (formerly DTZ). My tenure at JLL and C&W was characterized by consolidation and growth across various service lines, particularly in South India region. My passion lies in driving business growth and enhancing client experience.

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